Hello Ladies and gentlemen. I touched on this subject a little on my sacred union page and a little bit on my Afra page, but I think that it deserves to have its own page don’t you? I want to write lovingly about this while at the same time being plain and straight forward. This is not a religious teaching, but instead a spiritual one that comes from the Christ within me. I ask that Christ that dwells within me to be the lead and to gift me with divine wisdom. I do not claim to be a member of any traditional Christian religion, nor I am speaking on behalf of any. There is so much pressure for women to have sex. Too often the results are not the best for either party. When you have some time, please read what Jesus has to say about sex in Christ Returns Reveals Startling Truth. Jesus speaks plainly and very eloquently about sex and love relationships and what God originally intended for men and women. We are all God manifest in human form. Children of the Most High. We are here to express joyfully in physical form. The physical body of a female is not a receptacle for any man to deposit his sperm for sport or to prove that he is a man in ego thinking terms. Some men (not all) who behave in such a manner towards a woman have a tendency to believe that when a female allows him to have sex with her, especially after just meeting him, that she is a slut. However, what men fail to understand is that he is no better than the female for engaging in meaningless sex because he initiated it and fully, willingly participated in it. It is not the females fault alone for accepting what he offered her. What you put out into the world through thought, word and deed, you will receive back as a reflection. That is spiritual law and no one can escape it. The male is then also a slut for approaching the female to have meaningless and emotionless sex after just meeting her. When a male approaches a female that way he is making a mockery out of what is intended to be a beautiful and highly intimate spiritual act between a man and a woman. In our society though, males are not held accountable for their less then honorable behavior towards females. Contrary to what some people believe it is not the nature of men to play games with women and want to sleep with as many women has possible. That is a learned behavior that ego convinced men is true.. This is the kind of thinking that comes from not understanding who you really are, which is a physical manifestation of God. There is a huge mental disconnect from Source which has resulted in women being disrespected and degraded in many forms. Some men (not all) have explained their own behavior away by believing he is just being a man and it is in his nature (DNA) to play games and want sex all the time from multiple women. Besides, she slept with him on the first date so it’s all her fault, not his and that makes her a slut or “fast”. This type of rationalization takes responsibility away from the man for his part in it and puts it all on the female for being a, so called, slut. The women will then be put into one of two categories. She is either a ‘throw back’ or a ‘keeper’. This is ego thinking. Christ that dwells within you would never come to such a conclusion about any of His children. Every female came from God in whom The Father is well pleased. All woman are keepers because she is a child of The Most High. All women are someone's daughter, wife, sister or mother and is here to balance out divine male energy with love and nurturing. We are not here for the male ego to use for purposes that do not honor the Christ within.
The Christ that dwells within Jesus is the same Christ that dwells within all men. If men were spiritually awake to the fact that they are actually physical manifestations of Supreme Being they would never want to play games with women because to do so does not honor The Father. When a man disrespects a woman in any way he is also disrespecting himself. The true nature of men is to protect, take care of his family and to love. Love is the only thing that God knows. God is good and God is Love. There are no ‘throw backs’ in The Kingdom and God keeps all. When men behave in a way that is not what was intended by Father-Mother-God, they rob themselves of the Highest existence he can have with a woman of his choosing. Anything that he believes he is getting from acting through ego pales in comparison to the sexual joy he will experience when he is honoring the Christ that dwells within him and within her.
Being a Virgin It is perfectly okay for a female to remain a virgin until marriage if she wants to. No one has the right to make a woman feel badly or strange for wanting to wait to have sex with only her husband. If a woman doesn’t feel that she wants to wait until marriage, it is also her right to decide when she is ready to become physically involved when she does begin a relationship. If he is not willing to wait or starts to pressure her to have sex, then he is not the man for her and it is not the end of the world. There are some women today who while they are not virgins, decide to stop having sex and wait until marriage to become physically intimate with a man again. That is perfectly fine too and is her right to do so without ridicule. I have been told by some women that men will not wait and if you want a man then you will have to have sex with him whenever he wants it. If a man can’t get it from you, then he will leave you and find another girlfriend who will sleep with him. Well, that may be true of many men, however, that still does not mean the woman should give into him to keep him. Any man who would leave a woman because she wants to wait until marriage or wait until their relationship is more established simply does not spiritually recognize the gift that stood before him. It is important for women to know that if a man really cares about her and has good intentions, he will never pressure her to have sex before she is ready. If she wants to wait until she is married then a man would be better off respecting that. If he doesn’t want to wait to have her, then it would be best for him to let her go and seek another woman who has similar values as he does. There are so many women who have given this gift to a man only to then be dumped because all he really wanted was to be the first man she had sex with. In other words, he only wanted to be the man who ‘popped her cherry’. This then leaves the woman feeling emotionally hurt and her dreams
Women and casual sex A male friend of mine told me that there are many women who will have sex with men very easily without any thought, like it’s no big deal. I am well aware of this in our society and women who engage in sex that way are selling themselves short. Women are also physical manifestations of God. A female who knows her true self within the existence of the Universe, which is God, would never consensually allow any man to use her as a sperm bucket. **You (woman) are the one who sets the standard for yourself for how any man should treat you** Pray and meditate on it. Ask for guidance from The Holy Spirit which dwells right where you are in
Men and casual sex Making love is a wonderful thing. It is a most beautiful thing. When it is approached the way God intended you would never feel the need to engage in casual, meaningless sex. When you insert your penis into a female with less than honorable intentions, you deplete your life force. You disrespect yourself and the person you are having meaningless sex with. Sex was never meant to be a contact sport. It was never meant to engage in pornography. It is not for flying off to Brazil to engage in it with exotic women. It is humanity that turned sex into something dirty and taboo. It really is a gift from God. When you engage it in the way Universal Loving Intelligence originally intended, you would wonder why you wasted so much time and space making a mockery of it.
"Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so shall you become" -Robert Collier
Sex-Waiting
The most precious gift that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart" - Josiah G. Holland